Our COVID-19 world has been challenging, and being college students with expectations of what we wanted our college experience and friendships to look like can make it harder sometimes. But that doesn鈥檛 mean we should keep ourselves from experiencing what we can, even if that means it鈥檚 in a virtual space. We can still build new and existing friendships online. Here鈥檚 how we suggest getting started.
1. Put Yourself Out There
We know it can be scary to put yourself out there, especially when we don鈥檛 know what happens after. But we鈥檙e encouraging you to do it anyways! You鈥檒l be surprised how often it really does work out. Try contacting a club or organization on . You can start by reaching out and asking questions. Or find out how people with similar interests are meeting up online. Are they streaming on Twitch, like the ? Is there a Discord you can join? Can you follow the Orange community on ? Just start looking! You鈥檒l find your group sooner than you think.
2. Be Open to New Experiences
College is for trying new things and nurturing our identities right? So let鈥檚 be open to new experiences and possibilities! Join a conversation group, like or , that can help get you out of your comfort zone and learn others perspectives. Explore ways to serve our Greater 黑料不打烊 community with the or the . Find something new and just do it! Even if it鈥檚 not something you want to continue doing, you鈥檙e sure to meet someone new and build a lasting connection.
3. Get to Know your Classmates
This might seem obvious, but we鈥檝e got to say it. Introduce yourself to your classmates and maybe even start a group chat! Chances are you’ll be in similar classes in the future, so try not to view them as just potential group partners鈥攗nless they’re THAT group partner. We鈥檙e not saying you need to be best friends. We鈥檙e saying it鈥檚 pretty likely that they鈥檙e feeling lonely, too. So let鈥檚 reach out and support each other.
4. Know It鈥檚 Never Too Late
Even if you’re graduating in May, you can make new and lasting connections. Tell that person in your class you’ve always thought was cool how much you’ve enjoyed getting to grow with them. Invite your neighbors for a socially distanced walk in the park or pick a night to check in with each other from your porches. Do something you always wanted to, but never got the chance to. You鈥檙e never going to regret trying! We promise.
It鈥檚 hard to imagine sometimes, but COVID-19 won鈥檛 last forever. We鈥檙e hopeful, and once it鈥檚 safe, catch us making friends in the real world by getting our study group together in Panasci, playing Frisbee on the quad and finding our new place to belong.
If you’re feeling isolated and alone, reach out to a friend, advisor, faculty member or counselor. You can always call the at 315.443.8000 to speak with a counselor.聽